Movin’ On Up!

I've been meaning to write a post for about three weeks now outlining a few recent changes in my life. First and foremost, I moved from the smaller city I've been living in for a little over a decade to a much larger one in my state. I am originally from around where I have... Continue Reading →


Dear Kurt

It's been almost a week since you were taken from this world. It has rained continually due to a hurricane since you left, but it has also reflected the way I feel about you being gone. I am so glad that years ago when our opinions differed and I acted like a jackass, that you... Continue Reading →

1-Year Post-Op

And what a year it's been. So I'm not great at selfies. Anyways, it shocks me looking at this how light my scars are. Sensation? Not so much. I mean, it's returned to my pectorals and such, but the nips? Let's just say I know when it's cold, but I can't feel it. I'm not... Continue Reading →

My Dad Is Awesome

Hello all! A few nights ago while I was out, my uncle (Dad's middle brother) began texting me and my father in a group text. Apparently there was some transgender storyline on Grey's Anatomy (I didn't know people still watched that show). This amounted to my uncle feeling a little bad that we live so... Continue Reading →

2 Years on T!

Technically, my two-year anniversary is tomorrow, but I'll be working a 14-hour day. Thus, I'm posting tonight. Let's get to it! This last year has been a crazy learning experience, not just with transition, but with life in general. While transition doesn't have everything to do with my life, it is inextricably linked to it.... Continue Reading →


I got this thought in my head today about testosterone and tears. I often read over the years a lot of guys say that after testosterone, they found crying harder or impossible for a time. Followers of my blog will note that I have had trouble with my levels throughout my transition and I have... Continue Reading →

Fun Times at the DMV

Part of top surgery for me has meant the ability to change the gender marker on my driver's license. As evidenced by the URL of this blog, I live in Tennessee. In my state there is not a written law on the books about how to change your gender marker, but it is anecdotally understood... Continue Reading →

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